Once we got home it was back to the usual lack of sex though. We had had rough patches before and this was NOT one of them - kisses before we leave the house, communicating to each other, even laughing together, and we had had a recent short weekend vacation which is very rare for us. I had been gradually getting more and more upset over the lack of sex, even though otherwise we were getting along very well. She has worn maybe 1 or 2 of them for me and that was many many years ago. My wife has a lot of sexy lingerie in her closet. After the first time we started going into couples counseling (she had some trauma and I made some mistakes to make things worse) the second time she basically told me I need to be more affectionate towards her, kiss her when I leave the house, say I love you. In the past I have brought the lack of sex up to my wife on 2 separate occasions. When we first dated it was 1-2 times a day. At this point its down to a few times a year / once a month AT BEST. Quick Background: Married couple, multiple kids, sex life has declined rapidly and exponentially since having kids.
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